You only live once, and for a very short time. I observed people and researched on both happy and unhappy people. I have got the result that people who smile in front of us go through every bit as people who cry. The difference between them is happy people have the courage to ignore sufferings and smile anyway.If you read my book [The Wealthy State of Mind], you will know that I was born in a 3rd world country in an extreme poverty stricken community. However, even through my personalhardship growing up; I never stop dreaming and smiling. I sought to study natural and all that is in it. I learned that in life, there is alwayscause and effect. Ask yourself, if I decide today to make the best out of my situation and live life to the fullest. What is the worst that can happen?
I would have never thought a little boy from a rural area of Westmorland Jamaica would be growing multi million dollar companies. You have to have vision and take action, live life to the fullest because you only have one chance to invest into yourself.
Here are some tips I suggest for people who are trying to find their happiness, their why, and their purpose. I personally applied them in my own life to live a fulfilling life.
Follow your mind:
Listen to your heart. Whatever it is! Your parents, your superiors, your teachers, your bosses have their decision made for your life having experience from their own life. But you are the only person who will pass through the every moment of your life. If you are happy, you can make others happy. You cannot be happy on others’ wish. So, respect yourself and your decision. If you do not respect yourself, other people will never respect you. If you do not evaluate your decision, others will also not evaluate. Do not let others choose your way and alsodo not choose a way that hurts people around you. You also cannot be happy when you hurt others.
Create your own opportunity:
Have you heard the saying “ The best opportunities are the ones you create yourself.” This has always been my motto. To take your thought, business, or profession, and transform it into something genuinely fruitful, we must be fit for exploiting the open doors that come our direction. Be that as it may, in spite of what a large number of us have been persuaded to think, the best open doors for achievement are regularly not the ones we discover or stumble upon by good luck.
“There is no such thing as special people, people do special things.” –Garth Vickers
Always be in the present:
Your past is important from what you can learn, gather experience, and get a better way to move on. Your future is important to work towards, set a goal and achieve success. You have to think about your past and future. But you should live in the present. You should not forget your present to go after future and also should not waste your time thinking about past.
Take care of your health:
Your connection with this world is through your body. Even money cannot buy you happiness, if you are not physically well. To live life to the fullest the only tip you can never ignore is to stay healthy. Eat properly, have some exercise, have a sound sleep to have a nice life.
Spend time with family and friends:
If you are busy all the time, you will be bored and disappointed. Do not make your life full of schedule tasks. Have some time for recreation. Good relationships matter a lot for a happy life. Maintain a good relationship with your family and friends. Spend some time with them. Visit a place, watch a football match, go swimming, go cycling or a long drive with near and dear ones at least once a week. Just roam around and live life to the fullest.
Everyone has failure in life. But everyone is not unhappy in the world. When you fail once, you make a way to succeed more efficiently. You really fail if you stop trying. Do not be afraid of failures. Do not waste your time thinking about the things you cannot change it ever. Be positive about your life, parents, relatives, friends, values and customs and finally ignore haters, you will live well.
About the author:
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